I am BEYOND blessed by the amount of people who care about me and wish to see me in a relationship. Many of you introduce me to awesome guys. Many of you want me to date your relatives. Many of you feel connected to me by just reading these blogs and feel that I am the most unhappy person ever so you set up dates for me.
I love that you want to see me happy!!!
But… you are not helping.
Did you know that I have no difficulties to get guys attention?
Did you know that I get asked out very often?
Did you know that there is always a “proposal” waiting for me to say “yes” to just because of everything I write here or on Facebook ?
It sounds like I am bragging!! I promise I am not!
My problem is not the lack of men.
My problem is the lack of Christian men wanting something with me.
I really believe that marriage is not JUST about having sex with a man and feeling needed by someone…BUT it’s a partnership to accomplish a bigger mission…To leave a legacy that will expand the Kingdom of God.
God knows more than anyone what I say with my tears at night.
God knows more than anyone what I think when I meet a guy.
God knows more than anyone INCLUDING MYSELF what I really need.
No, I will not find my husband on a dating site. He is not an object I can pick out of a catalog. (I have a really strong opinion on dating sites. Sorry!)
No, I will not find my husband at a bar. I don’t date drunk guys.
My husband (or at least the guy I really want to date and marry) will be out there doing something for our Lord!!!
I REFUSE to date guys that don’t get shaken up when they think of Jesus dying on a cross for them.
I REFUSE to date guys that just go to church but don’t serve.
I REFUSE to date guys that don’t have an specific call from God because they haven’t heard a need or whatever.
I REFUSE to date guys that are not disciplining people.
I REFUSE to date guys that don’t live by faith.
I REFUSE to date guys that have a CASUAL VIEW OF GOD.
I believe Genesis 2:18. I want to be someone’s suitable helper!!! THATS MY BIGGEST DESIRE!!!
I want to help my man with things of the Lord. I don’t just want a husband that goes to work, comes to church with me and doesn’t disciple anyone.
I want to live dangerously!!!
I want to live a life that makes no sense!!!
I want to live a life that will show people that God is a provider, that God hears our prayers, and that will give Him glory!!!
So don’t set me up with your cousins, brothers, uncles and even dads. (Yeah I like them a bit older)
Don’t!! Don’t set me up with them unless he is already living a dangerously life for Christ!!! A life with big plans to expand the kingdom of Our Father!!!
Because I know myself…
and I know what I want…
And I REFUSE to settle for less.