Does he like me?! 


Ladies!!!

Ah! The game! Isn’t so fun?! 

Like being in high school… you know… kinda depressing at times actually…

Sometimes it is fun tho… sometimes is fun to see how a guy acts all nervous around you and how he tries to figure you out. I mean who doesn’t like that attention! 

I know, I know… all guys are all different! 

And I also know that if he asks you out, buys you flowers or even flat out telling you… those can be good signs BUT what happens when the first signs are not super clear… 

It also depends what is his love language… it all changes when he is loving you in a language you do not know… that’s when it gets complicated. 

These are the VERY FIRST SIGNS of the possibility of the dude liking you… according to what I have noticed 😉

If he wants to impress you…

Oh guys! They get super cute when they try to impress you. It can be anything from a hobby, his knowledge, his job, or even his looks. He will make sure you know he is the best at that thing! 

If he makes up excuses to see you EVEN WHEN IT IS NOT CONVENIENT FOR HIM…

You just know! When they try to see your face for even a few minutes… they can do all kinds of things to make it happen… they can get SUPER creative!!! 

If you are in the room and he usually looks at you to check your exact location…

This is actually a REAL thing. Studies have shown that when you are in a room full of people you will constantly look at that one person that makes you happy or the person that will ease any type of anxiety. Sometimes when you are in a room full of people and you see the crush you will constantly look to see where they are. You will modify your posture and even smile more. When the crush either leaves the room or disappears for a few minutes. You will find yourself with a little anxiety (a minimal one) trying to figure out where this person is and when is this person coming back… 

Guys are not an exception! Guys will check the room to see where you are… they might not come close to you all the time but they know where you are… if the guy is super comfortable showing his feelings… he might even smile at you when you catch him looking at you. That makes it extra sweet… if you ask me! 

If he checks on you during the day NOT JUST AFTER 9:30PM…

Guys… every guy not only the ones that are not saved… will get a little needy (let’s call it that way…) at night. They want attention usually from women at night… 

So if he is texting you during the day and not only at night the chances are that this guy is legitimately thinking of you during the day and not only at night when he is… you know… 

Oh and… If he is not texting you… I AM SURE HE IS TEXTING SOMEONE ELSE! That’s just how it is…

If he asks about your life…

Guys usually are the selfish kind… they will talk and talk and talk some more bout their own likes and dislikes… that’s pretty much how it is… but when a guy WANTS to hear about you… it’s a REALLY GOOD SIGN!!! 

It can be as simple as “do you like sushi?”

If he is studying you, he is asking questions… if he is studying you, you are important to him.

If he is not worried about showing his affection in front of others…

Guys will make sure other people know you are on his radar. Guys like to mark their territory. A macho thing if you wanna call it like that…

They will not care if others notice he is after your bones…

If he is super sweet and fun on the phone with you or when you are alone and super awkward almost as if he is embarrassed to be seen with you in front of others… that’s not so good! 

Girl, he is not worth your time… next guy! 

If he likes your selfie…

I know, it’s so dumb! But if a guy is just looking, thinking about liking you or kinda confused, he will act as if he is NOT following in social media… but of course he knows your every move… if the guy is BANANAS for you he will either like everything you post or for sure like your selfies… and the even more brave ones will comment on them! 

This is the whole thing with marking territory… like peeing all over your social media! I know… gross!

Ladies, this is just from what I have seen… there are guys out there that do not fit the “normal”… so don’t judge them to harsh… I just thought I would put together something for you to keep as a reference… this is what I use! 

I love you ladies!!! 

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